If you want to get your ex back then why not use the laws of attraction to help you do it.
The laws of attraction are the beliefs that positive thoughts will bring positive things into your life and negative thoughts will bring negative things into your life. What you want in your life you will attract by stating to yourself that it WILL HAPPEN!
When you are in the middle of a breakup it you will almost certainly be having negative thoughts about your situation. You will be feeling heartbroken, depressed and without hope. You need to change this attitude to bring the laws of attraction onto your side.
The key to getting your ex back is to start being happy within yourself and to start having a confident and positive attitude towards EVERYTHING in your life. Remember, positive thoughts attract positive things and the things you want. Negative thoughts attract negative things.
You need to get yourself out of the house. Start doing things which will make you happy. Work on your health, find new hobbies. Doing these things will help keep you happy as you work towards getting your ex back.
Surround yourself with other positive people. Make sure these people are also supporting you in your efforts to get back together with your ex. Do not associate with anyone who is negative towards you, your ex or what you are trying to do.
You cannot focus on any of the bad things that happened in your relationship with your ex. If they broke up with you then you need to get over this and start to remember all the positive things and focus on the reasons why you want to still be together with your ex. Remember the good times and forget the bad times.
Pick yourself up and start being positive about your life. Focus on beating your depression and getting the postive attitude you need to attract the things into your life that you want, including to get ex back.
Once you have turned your attitude around then you will be in the right frame of mind to attract back your ex through the laws of attraction! Attract the positives and what you want into your life by being positive!
Also, once you are a postive, happy, optimistic person, your ex will see this and you will almost certainly become desirable to your ex again. Who would not want to be with a happy, postive, optimistic person!