Get Your Ex Back With These Strategies!

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So it's over but you want to get your ex back no matter what it takes. There are various ways of dealing with a break up and different things work for different people. Depending on the intensity and duration of your relationship, there are some strategies that may work and others that might just fall flat. Let's go over the workable strategies and figure out how they can help you get your ex back:

Human emotions are human emotions. And it's rare to find someone who accepts a break up gracefully. It hurts real bad! And there's no easy way but to go through it. Even if your ex is the one to walk out of the long time relationship you both had, he/she can't help but have memories of your togetherness. And it's natural to be curious about how the other is coping with the break up. It's kind of a double edged sword where you stand to be rejected either way, whether you try to re-establish contact with your ex or refuse to get in touch with him/her. Going by experience, you have a better chance with the latter option.

Not contacting an ex has worked for most people. You must be wondering how you're supposed to get your ex back if you can't be in touch!? You see, keeping no contact and ignoring any attempt they might make to get in touch, makes you unreachable, and so, more attractive in their eyes! You'll be surprised how well this works for most people who want to get their ex back! Again, it comes down to basic human nature - we want what we can't have! And by not being in your ex's life at all, your ex feels they can't have you... And that makes them want you all the more!

Another powerful strategy is to maintain silence. Don't get into any kind of confrontation or argument with your ex. There are no brownie points to be scored here! Since you've just broken up, the last thing your ex would want is to be reminded of the mistakes he/she made that led to the break up or contributed to it. Indulging in a mud slinging match with allegations being thrown around will only push your ex away. Try the civil approach instead. Talk to each other nicely. Keep smiling even if the very sight of your ex ties you up in knots. Look happy without overdoing it!

Don't take the first step to establish contact with your ex. Even if his/her valuables are still lying around or some important papers that belong to them are with you. Sending birthday text messages or going to the same hang out places he/she frequents is a complete no-no.

The idea is to seem as elusive as possible. Your ex should get the idea that you're happy with the way things are.

These are some strategies that have worked for partners who are keen to get their exes back into their lives.

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Ilona Benes has 1 articles online

Why is getting your ex back so important to you? Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.

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This article was published on 2010/03/30
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