After all the fighting and the arguments are over, just how exactly do you get an ex to get back together after a break up? This can be quite a challenge, especially if your ex does not want to talk to you or has been avoiding you. Don't worry and don't lose hope! You can get your ex back, and here's what you should do:
• For starters, find out what went wrong in your relationship. If you really want to get back together after a break up with your ex, you would not want the relationship to fail miserably all over again, right? Once you discover what went wrong, fix it. Your ex will appreciate your efforts once he or she sees that the cause of your break up is now gone.
• Second, you should look your best if you want your ex to get back together after a break up. If you look lousy, overweight, or simply unattractive, do you think your ex would want to get back together with you? Go to the gym, place yourself on a strict diet, and start eating and living healthy. Even if you don't win your ex over, you'll still end up looking and feeling attractive.
• Third, you should make your presence felt if you want to get back together after a break up. You would not want your ex to forget you and start looking for someone else, right? Keep your presence felt but maintain distance - you don't want to pressure your ex into getting back together ASAP.
• Lastly, you should also give your ex some time to think if he or she wants to get back together with you. It is understood that it can be quite hard and difficult, especially if you miss your ex all the time. But sometimes, all your ex may need is space and time to think things over. Who knows? The time spent apart may be just enough to send him or her back to you.