Most women can't escape the gravity of a bad break up. As a result, they make one critical post break up mistake that leaves them heartbroken: they secretly hope that they will get their man back. They simply can't let go of what happened. They invested too much in the relationship and they feel like they will never find another man like the one they lost.
If you make this post break up mistake, you'll have to deal with one major problem:
Problem #1: The healing process can't take place while you're still hoping that your man will come back to you. Your ability to fall in love can't rejuvenate and as a result, you won't have any desire to date other men. So now you have a big void left in your love life and you can't fill it because you're waiting for a miracle.
Every woman falls victim to this process of wanting him back. It's hard not to. But the truth is that in the context of love and relationships, everything that's lost is lost forever. Men break up with women when they aren't attracted to them anymore. Once that attraction disappears, nothing can bring it back. That's why the best thing to do is to let go and move on with your life. Learn from your mistakes and take the attitude "Case closed! Next!". Never look back. Remember the saying: "unspoken names never reach my heart again". What's important is to fully recover from this break up so that you don't have to carry the suffering into your future relationships.
Many women feel like they have to lock themselves in a fortress and never open up again in a relationship, after a devastating break up. Obviously, that's not the solution... So remember: if he left because he wasn't attracted to you anymore, the best post break up decision that you can take is to learn from your mistakes and move on with your life. Keep in mind what Richard Bandler, the world's greatest hypnotist said: "People always say that years from now, you're going to look back at this and laugh. My question is: why wait?"